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Suddenly find yourself with a newborn and have no experience in the matter? Here are some practical suggestions from a mother-of-four, grandmother and child care professional:

1. FOOD:

Find a formula that is readily available, inexpensive and preferably powdered in large cans. All you need is water and bottles and you’re good-to-go. If the baby has any digestive problems try different brands or soy formula. You don’t have to worry about solid food for six months.

2. DIAPERING:

Find disposable diapers and babywipes that are inexpensive. Get the thick type. The wipes in the round plastic container are too thin. If no other brand is on sale for a better price, get the store brand.

If the baby shows any signs of irritation try different brands, all natural wipes or soft paper towels and water. Thick white diaper cream is the best.

TRAVEL:

Get some sort of bag to keep the baby stuff in, that you can take with you and leave with other people when they are caring for the baby. It can be cool, like a gym bag or a piece of luggage; it doesn’t have to be a “diaper bag.”

Include a can of powdered formula, 2 bottles, several bottles of water, (you’ll need extra to rinse the bottles), diapers, wipes, plastic grocery bags, and 4 or more outfits. Use the plastic grocery bags for storing dirty clothing and disposing used diapers when you’re out. Include a notebook with all of your contact information, medical cards and medical release forms for sitters.

You must use an approved infant carseat. You can usually get one free if you can’t afford it. Secure it in the backseat, facing backwards. The type with detachable bottoms that stay in the car are wonderful.

CLOTHING:

Forget fashion. Keep it simple. Head-to-toe onsies and footed sleepers are all you need. If it’s cold, add more layers. If it’s warm, less layers. You don’t have to deal with complicated clothing until the baby starts to stand.

BABYWHISPERING:

If the baby is crying after a feeding, diaper change and burping, hold and comfort him. Put him over your heart, breath slowly and send him relaxation. Walk or rock in a rocking chair. Use the shushing sound; it comforts babies. Tell him he’ll feel better, that you’re going to help him. If you believe it, he can believe it.

When a baby is very young, you do whatever it takes to comfort them. You can’t just lay them down and tell them to go to sleep. Many new parents find themselves waking up in a rocking chair with their baby asleep on their chest.

If nothing works, if the crying is shrill like the baby is feeling sharp pain, call the doctor.

Let’s see…what have I left out? What would you suggest?

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